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Your Stay-at-Home Survival Guide

Drenda Keesee • Apr 03, 2020
With most of us on some sort of stay-at-home order, or being forced to homeschool your kids, or fill the hours with things to do, odds are you're looking for ideas to keep stay-at-home life from feeling like stuck-at-home-forever life.

In an ideal world, extra family time sounds great. But practicing social distancing with your family for an indefinite time period can seem daunting. And what happens when everyone goes stir crazy and there's nowhere for you to go?

Just because you have to stay home doesn’t mean you can’t have a great time.

Here are some tips and ideas for how to make the most of your time while you’re staying at home!

Remember, be mindful.

Nobody wants to live in isolation. Be mindful of how your children are processing this. It’s important for them to be aware that something is happening and that's why they must change their routine. But it’s also important for parents not to place their stress and concern on their children.

Here are some stay-at-home survival tips!

 1. Come up with a post-quarantine bucket list.

Make a post-quarantine bucket list with all the things you wish you could be doing right now!

Many of us are wishing for the simple things right now, like going out to eat together, going to the movies, shopping at the mall, watching March Madness, preseason baseball, or going to a park.

Every time you or someone in your family wishes they were doing something that you can't do right now, put it on your bucket list for a future family day. Once the stay-at-home order is over, work through the list, and be grateful for the simple things most of us used to take for granted.

 2. Have a game night.


Break out the puzzles and board games! With all of the technology available today, it can be tempting to just let our kids play XBox or binge watch Netflix or Disney+ all day. Even though you may all be in the same house, it's still important to interact. Play some games, even if it’s just a few times a week. Plan times to set aside all of the devices, turn off the news, and spend time together.

Movie nights are also a fun idea. There are so many ways to digitally access movies from your home. Many streaming services even offer a free trial period. Find a movie to watch as a family, or a TV show to watch a few episodes of together each week. Having something to watch as a family will be a lot more enjoyable than each person watching their shows individually.


3. Maintain some kind of structure, including time to get energy out.

It can be really tempting to just stay in pajamas all day, not set your alarm clock, and let everyone just do whatever they want. One day or an occasional day like that is fun, but you should try to keep your kids on as close to a normal schedule as possible for the most part.

Don’t get stuck in the habit of sleeping in, staying up late, snacking all day, and not doing any physical activity. Go on a walk and get some fresh air. It’s okay to bend the rules some, but acting like it’s eternal spring break will cause you to feel sluggish and create habits that will be hard to break when this has all passed.

Have everyone wake up at a consistent time, eat meals on your normal schedule, complete their schoolwork before playtime, or with scheduled breaks, and plan for recess. Let your kids play outside to get their energy out!


4. Tap into resources online, then take them offline.

Homeschooling can be challenging when you're not forced to do it, let alone being mandated to educate your child. Cut yourself some slack. Be sure to look for resources online to help you, as well as what the schools are providing.

When possible, look for ideas to have your kids get creative or learn a new skill offline. It’s much easier said than done, but it is possible to encourage learning offline. Try teaching your kids how to cook a meal, how to garden, even a chore that needs done!

 
5. Take time for yourself.

This is important. You need this time to prevent burnout. Go for a walk, wake up early to have some quiet time, or take some time to yourself when your kids are having screen time. Take a nice bath, spend time in prayer, do a project on your own, or get some things done that you need to do.

It’s important to take care of yourself during this time so that you can take care of your family as well.

 
6. Do a family Bible study.

This one is simple, but it’s probably one of the most important stay-at-home survival tips there is!

Church is now online, so watch as a family and spend some time discussing it!

If you have young kids, we have free children’s programming available at faithlifenowTV.com.  Watch some programs together or pick a book of the Bible to read and discuss. There are also lots of online resources available on how to do a Bible study with kids. Get creative!


7. Practice gratitude.

You may be feeling overwhelmed with everything that's been going on and life being turned upside down, but I want to encourage you to practice gratitude during this time. See the extra time you have with your family as a blessing. Think about the people who have to stay-at-home alone during this season and how (most) of them would give anything to have other people with them.

Take advantage of the family time. Go on a hike, watch some movies, just be together. Use this time to learn a new skill, start a new task, or go further in your walk with God—this time will pass, and life will get back to normal!

By Gary Keesee 08 May, 2024
Reading Time 3 mins 43 secs – Are you happy right now? Or are you feeling a little grumpy, or negative, or sorry for yourself? We’ve all been there. Years ago, I had one of those months. Yes, I said months , not days. I was negative. I was feeling sorry for myself. The weight and pressures of life and certain situations were bearing down on me. For some reason, during that time, I went to a conference I really didn’t feel like going to, and the speaker got up and said he was going to talk about being thankful. Great , I thought. Just what I want to hear. What I really wanted was for someone to join me in my pity party. But that wasn’t happening. Because God knew that wasn’t what I needed. He knew I needed someone to tell me the truth. See, I had taken my eyes off of all of the blessings of God. I had stopped remembering all of the amazing times He had come through for me. I had taken my focus off of His promises and put it on my problems. That message was just what I needed. The Holy Spirit dealt with me right then about my heart and how I had been ungrateful. I had to repent. God set me free that day. Here’s the thing: studies show that when you’re happy and thankful , you have 17% more friends. When you’re happy, you live longer and you have less health problems like heart attacks, strokes, colds, the flu, and even pain. Being grateful also strengthens your emotions, makes you more optimistic and less self-centered, improves your sleep, increases your self-esteem and your energy, helps you bounce back after a setback, reduces feelings of envy, helps your marriage, makes you look better, and makes you more productive. Proverbs 17:22 (KJV) says, “ A merry heart doeth good like a medicine: but a broken spirit drieth the bones .” See that? Happiness is like medicine. Discouragement sucks the life out of you. Are you reading this and thinking, “ Gary, you don’t know what I’m going through. I have serious problems” ? I understand. But here’s the thing: happiness is not circumstantial. Happiness is a choice you make. I hear it all the time… “Gary, you don’t understand. I hate my house.” Sell it. “Gary, you don’t get it. I hate my job.” Quit it. Find a new one. “Gary, I just hate my life.” CHANGE it. You’re not stuck. You have options. Every single day, you make choices to do something or NOT do something. And you have plenty of reasons to be happy. Stop thinking you can only be happy when everything seems “perfect.” Because “perfect” is really rare, and I do mean really rare. In fact, odds are there will always be something in your life that isn’t “perfect.” The good news is, no matter what you go through or deal with in life, you can still be thankful and happy, because you can always trust God despite your circumstances. Philippians 4:6 (NIV) says, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God .” Wait. Did you see what that said? Notice it didn’t say, “Only be anxious about the big things you can’t handle on your own.” Nope. It says don’t be anxious about anything . It also says by prayer—and with thanksgiving —present your requests to God. That means you should be thanking Him for all He’s already done and for what He’s about to do in your situation. You should be thanking Him before your answer shows up, because He’s faithful and good. Look at Judges 20:19–25. There, we see the nation of Israel suffering great loss after a huge battle. They had lost 22,000 men. 22,000. Can you even imagine? I’m sure you’ll agree that that was a really bad day. Then, on the second day of battle, they lost 18,000 more men. 40,000 men lost in two days. The Bible tells us they took a day off at that point. They stopped and regrouped. Then, in verse 26, we see that the entire army presented offerings of thanksgiving to God. Things had gone really wrong, and they needed to remind themselves that God was for them, that He is good and faithful, that He was with them. And the next day, they went out and won the battle. So, what about you, friend? Do you need to stop? Do you need to take your mind off the negative and remind yourself that God is for you, that He is good and faithful, and that He is with you?
By Gary Keesee 10 Apr, 2024
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By Gary Keesee 13 Mar, 2024
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