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How to Conquer Your Fears

Drenda Keesee • Mar 22, 2020


“Coronavirus will change the world permanently.”

“Everything is going to be shut down.”

“You might already have the coronavirus without knowing it.”

We’ve all lived through several weeks of being bombarded with one negative report after another, with stats and charts and dire predictions, with our lives slowing to a crawl, or flat out coming to a complete halt, or being turned upside down.

Right now, you might even feel like you’re in the fight of your life against fear and hopelessness.

When you hear negative reports everywhere you turn, it’s easy to bow down to fearful thoughts. Fear is a real emotion, and it will try to paralyze you if you let it.

God has plans He wants you to fulfill that are bigger than you could imagine, but fear will keep you from stepping out in faith.

Fear makes us focus on the problem or circumstance instead of the future God has for us. Fear makes us think of the worst-case scenarios instead of what we can be doing right now to share the love of Jesus and see people saved. It makes us lose sight of reality and the promises of God.

BUT OUR GOD IS BIGGER. He knows what is happening, and there is NO problem He can’t solve.

You don’t have to live as a slave to fear.

 
God Has Called You to Greater  

God has called us to live extraordinary lives. He wants to use us to promote His Kingdom and share His love with the world. God is still moving and is still performing miracles today!

God wants to move through us and demonstrate Himself to the world! Jesus told His disciples before He left, “I tell you the truth, anyone who believes in me will do the same works I have done, and even greater works, because I am going to be with the Father” (John 14:12, NLT).

Satan knows that God has incredible plans for all of our lives. One of the methods he will use to keep us from following God’s plan is fear. He will use fear to convince us that we are not capable of all that God has for us, or that the risk isn’t worth stepping out.

If you’re looking for a path to your purpose that doesn’t require you to take any risks, you’ll be waiting forever.

You will never be able to pursue the destiny God has for you without the courage to step out in faith.

 
How Satan Uses Fear

Fear works little by little. It starts with allowing one thought of worry to live in your head and slowly tries to grow until fear becomes a way of life. Fear will hold you captive if you let it.

My mama used to always tell me, “Now Drenda, don’t make a mountain out of a molehill.”

That is such a great analogy for what fear does in our lives. Fear turns small problems into huge, paralyzing obstacles.

When fear tries to rise up inside of you, take a step back and get a God perspective on the situation.


Fear can manifest in many different ways. It can lead to stress and anxiety, as well as impact our overall mental health.

Think about it: How different would your life look today if you were completely fearless? If you had NO FEAR, what would you do differently?

 
How to Overcome Fear

So, how can you overcome fear?

Use the Word of God as your weapon.

The Bible tells us to cast down every imagination that goes against what God’s Word says (2 Corinthians 10:5). That means when you start to imagine symptoms of sickness, you have to make that imagination line up with the Word of God that says by His stripes you are healed.

Use the Word of God as your weapon against fear by renewing your mind to the TRUTH of His promises!

When you know that you know that something is true, it doesn’t matter what the news says, what a doctor says, or what you read on social media. You know the truth!

That's why it's so important that you renew your mind with God’s truth MORE than you renew your mind with the world’s facts.

When you renew your mind and spirit with God’s Word, you are literally rewiring your brain to think like Jesus.

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Friend, I know that having confidence in God’s plan can be scary, especially when you don’t have an alternative option. No backups, just God. There have been many instances in my life where Gary and I have felt called to something and people looked at us like we were nuts! But each time God showed up, it increased our confidence that the next time He called us to do something, He would show up again.

After years of following Christ, I can confidently say that He WILL show up every single time. I’ve seen it not just in my life, but I have seen it in so many others’ lives as well. It might not happen the way you pictured it, but God’s plan is better than anything you could ASK, THINK, or IMAGINE (Ephesians 3:20)!

“I am leaving you with a gift—peace of mind and heart. And the peace I give is a gift the world cannot give. So don’t be troubled or afraid” (John 14:27, NLT).

By Gary Keesee 08 May, 2024
Reading Time 3 mins 43 secs – Are you happy right now? Or are you feeling a little grumpy, or negative, or sorry for yourself? We’ve all been there. Years ago, I had one of those months. Yes, I said months , not days. I was negative. I was feeling sorry for myself. The weight and pressures of life and certain situations were bearing down on me. For some reason, during that time, I went to a conference I really didn’t feel like going to, and the speaker got up and said he was going to talk about being thankful. Great , I thought. Just what I want to hear. What I really wanted was for someone to join me in my pity party. But that wasn’t happening. Because God knew that wasn’t what I needed. He knew I needed someone to tell me the truth. See, I had taken my eyes off of all of the blessings of God. I had stopped remembering all of the amazing times He had come through for me. I had taken my focus off of His promises and put it on my problems. That message was just what I needed. The Holy Spirit dealt with me right then about my heart and how I had been ungrateful. I had to repent. God set me free that day. Here’s the thing: studies show that when you’re happy and thankful , you have 17% more friends. When you’re happy, you live longer and you have less health problems like heart attacks, strokes, colds, the flu, and even pain. Being grateful also strengthens your emotions, makes you more optimistic and less self-centered, improves your sleep, increases your self-esteem and your energy, helps you bounce back after a setback, reduces feelings of envy, helps your marriage, makes you look better, and makes you more productive. Proverbs 17:22 (KJV) says, “ A merry heart doeth good like a medicine: but a broken spirit drieth the bones .” See that? Happiness is like medicine. Discouragement sucks the life out of you. Are you reading this and thinking, “ Gary, you don’t know what I’m going through. I have serious problems” ? I understand. But here’s the thing: happiness is not circumstantial. Happiness is a choice you make. I hear it all the time… “Gary, you don’t understand. I hate my house.” Sell it. “Gary, you don’t get it. I hate my job.” Quit it. Find a new one. “Gary, I just hate my life.” CHANGE it. You’re not stuck. You have options. Every single day, you make choices to do something or NOT do something. And you have plenty of reasons to be happy. Stop thinking you can only be happy when everything seems “perfect.” Because “perfect” is really rare, and I do mean really rare. In fact, odds are there will always be something in your life that isn’t “perfect.” The good news is, no matter what you go through or deal with in life, you can still be thankful and happy, because you can always trust God despite your circumstances. Philippians 4:6 (NIV) says, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God .” Wait. Did you see what that said? Notice it didn’t say, “Only be anxious about the big things you can’t handle on your own.” Nope. It says don’t be anxious about anything . It also says by prayer—and with thanksgiving —present your requests to God. That means you should be thanking Him for all He’s already done and for what He’s about to do in your situation. You should be thanking Him before your answer shows up, because He’s faithful and good. Look at Judges 20:19–25. There, we see the nation of Israel suffering great loss after a huge battle. They had lost 22,000 men. 22,000. Can you even imagine? I’m sure you’ll agree that that was a really bad day. Then, on the second day of battle, they lost 18,000 more men. 40,000 men lost in two days. The Bible tells us they took a day off at that point. They stopped and regrouped. Then, in verse 26, we see that the entire army presented offerings of thanksgiving to God. Things had gone really wrong, and they needed to remind themselves that God was for them, that He is good and faithful, that He was with them. And the next day, they went out and won the battle. So, what about you, friend? Do you need to stop? Do you need to take your mind off the negative and remind yourself that God is for you, that He is good and faithful, and that He is with you?
By Gary Keesee 10 Apr, 2024
Reading Time 2 mins 13 secs – In John 6, we read the story of Jesus feeding 5,000 people with five loaves of bread and two fish. Do you know it? It’s where we see Jesus teaching the disciples how to release the Kingdom of God into the earth realm. Basically, a large crowd was following Jesus, listening to Him teach, and watching Him perform miracles. It got to a point where the people needed to eat, and Jesus asked the disciples what they planned to feed the people. Of course, Jesus knew the disciples would freak out. They couldn’t feed 5,000 people. In fact, they started talking about how it would take more than half a year’s wages to buy just a bite for that many people. Jesus was teaching the disciples, and He was teaching us— the Kingdom of God has all the answers you need . How can you release the Kingdom of God into your life? Here are the five steps Jesus took. 1. Look at what you have. Jesus asked the disciples what they had to feed the people. What do you have in your life that you can give God to work with? Jesus multiplied bread into bread and fish into fish. What do you need multiplied in your life? Find some of it. That’s your seed. Also, remember that money can be named. You don’t sow money to believe for more paper or digital money. Money represents your life and can be named to be the thing you need multiplied. 2. Make sure you’re in faith. “To have faith is to be sure of the things we hope for, to be certain of the things we cannot see” (Hebrews 11:1, GNT). You have to know how to judge whether or not you’re in faith. How? Do you have the right picture? When you close your eyes, what do you see? Do you see yourself with the thing you’re believing for? Can you defend your position? Why do you believe it? Prove it! Because you can be sure that between the “Amen” and the “There it is!” the enemy is going to contend for it, so you better be able to defend it. Do you have joy, expectancy, and peace? Are you in agreement with your spouse? 3. Confess over what you have, and release it in faith. Be specific. Say exactly what you’re believing for and release the seed to God. 4. Get the plan from God. Be ready for new direction, new ideas, and new concepts by revelation from the Holy Spirit. Carry a notepad and a pen. Write everything down. 5. Act quickly! When God gives you the plan, MOVE! It’s wise to have counselors and get wisdom, but you need to act swiftly on any direction you receive from the Holy Spirit.
By Gary Keesee 13 Mar, 2024
Reading Time 2 mins 34 secs – How can you make sure you’re equipped for the growth coming your way this year? Here are my 10 steps to posture yourself for opportunity and success. 1. Ask yourself how you’re handling your current responsibilities. Don’t run from your responsibilities. No matter where you are or what you’re doing, you should be a success. People will still see the evidence of God even if you think you’re in the wrong spot. 2. Detox your life of the things that keep you from having time to think. We live in a fast-paced world. There are plenty of things that can keep you distracted. But it’s in the moments that you stop to think that you’ll find ways to solve problems, and that’s where the opportunities are. So figure out what is consuming your time. Start saying no to some things. Find time to think. 3. Don’t hang around people who are always losing. I know people hit rough spots, but if the people in your life are chronically losing, it’s time to expand your circle. Hang around people who are better than you are, who don’t see things as impossible, and who have vision. It may be uncomfortable for you, but their influence will cause you to think differently. 4. Write down EVERY idea that you have, no matter how strange it seems. Most people filter opportunities and ideas through what they perceive their ability to be. This means most people discard ideas by the dozens because they don’t think they can do them. But God isn’t limited to what you know how to do. The ideas He gives you might seem so weird to you that you can’t process them fully. Write them down so you have time to think about them. 5. Research. Research. Repeat. You don’t need to know how to do something; you need to know how to learn how to do it. Research until you find what you’re looking for. 6. Count the cost before you jump. A lot of Christians hear God and jump out too soon, resulting in catastrophe. There are seasons for everything. God will prepare you for where He wants you to go. Be patient. 7. Always be in agreement with your spouse. Never, ever march out into battle without your spouse being in total agreement and your faith aligned. 8. Ask God for direction. Ask Him to help you, to show you where to go, and what to do. And always remember that prophecy from other people shouldn’t lead you; it should only confirm what God has already said to you. 9. Commit to never quit. Quitting is not an option. Once you’ve moved, don’t move again until God speaks to you. Stay with it. Walk it out. Don’t quit. So many people have so much potential, but they get uncomfortable and they quit. If you want to win, you should always be stretching. 10. Get ready to embrace bigger things. Your ability to see the big picture will keep growing as you change and grow on the inside. You’ll pick up on even more opportunities. For more principles, check out this FREE video on success.
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